What is your answer? The answer is relationship. Yes, your relationship with people.
Your relationship with people can bring you anywhere and everywhere. To the nearest and also the furthest places. Wherever you want to go, you'd be able to go. And I'm not talking about relationship as in Boy-Girl Relationship, it's everything. Your family, friends and your lover.
To me, your relationship with people is the second most important. The first would be your own character. Because your character is the one that forms the relationships with other people.
What is relationship to you? Relationship to me is the connection between you and another person or any people. And why relationship is so important? God didn't create us to be lonely or to be alone. If we're called to do so, God would have only created you and not anybody else.
As most of you all know, I love to talk. I wouldn't dare to say that I have strong relationship with the people around me but I would dare to admit that it's easy for me to start a relationship(friendship terms) with anybody/everybody I meet. However, starting isn't the key factor of this whole post. What I feel that is the most tiring, difficult but yet enjoyable, is the part when both parties try to maintain the relationship.
Relationship takes two hands to clap. Which also means that both parties have to make an effort to keep it going and progressing. And I feel that as you grow older, there will be more relationships that you will make. But at the same time, as more relationships you made, you'd have lesser time for every relationship.
Whether a relationship is currently progressing greatly, no progression at all or it ended up badly, I can proudly say I have never regretted the decision that I started with anyone that I've met. And that includes you, my very very best friend.
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You're like a brother to me. More than a brother actually. We do gay stuffs together. We can just talk shit together. We can laugh, be angry, be sad, be irritating and be annoying together. We've been through a lot together. 7 years and still counting. But is it really still counting? Does it really count? I hate to admit it but we aren't as close any more.
When we see each other in school, we don't even have much to say. It's like we used to be so close before we it's now awkward for us to see each other. All we say when we see each other is " Hi, Bye, What are you doing here? Where are you going?" and that's all. I hate this part but it's all we do now. I really miss those times we could just talk about anything and any shit and we won't run of anything to say.
I've learnt a lot from you. You always take care of me. And when people bully me, you'd stand up for me. I wouldn't blame anyone for what happened now but I know that before we drift apart, it's my fault. But for now, I guess it's no one's fault.
People change. That's a fact and it'll always be a fact. I change, you change, our relationship change. Although now we aren't as close any more, but I'd like you to know that you'll always be my brother, my best friend and my crazy asshole freaking irritating and annoying jerk.
And I've got a lot of hopes..
I really hope to see you this Sunday because we haven't met and chat for a long time. I also hope to see you back in church one day. You're the one who brought me in, I really hate to say this but it really isn't the same without you. I really hope that things will get better. And I know it will if you'd come back to church again.. and lastly, I hope you'd read this. Thank you for everything and our memories that we have will always stay.
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Remember that your relationship with people is very important! Start sharing with each other if things don't work out and start to fall out.
Have a good day everyone. And oh yah, Happy Chinese New Year! :)
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